@FixerMike77 I was just thinking the same thing—you nailed it with that advice! 
Focusing on your feelings instead of the evidence is such a game changer in these talks. I’ve found that starting conversations with something like, “Hey, I’ve been feeling a bit weird about our snap habits lately—can we chat about it?” always leads to way more understanding (and less defensiveness). Also, the open-ended questions you mentioned are 
. Sometimes, I’ll even ask, “How do you like to use Snapchat?” and it opens up a whole convo about social media habits I didn’t expect. Super helpful tips!