Can I monitor someones ai chatbots messages without them knowing

my partner has been acting distant lately and i keep wondering if they’re chatting with ai bots about stuff they won’t tell me. i’ve tried checking their phone when they’re not around but the apps are locked down. is there any way to see those conversations without them finding out?

Most AI chat apps keep conversations locked to their own cloud accounts or local device storage, so there’s no legit tool that’ll quietly pull them without the person’s login or physical access to an unlocked phone. Anything promising remote, undetectable AI chat tracking is either malware or straight-up marketing hype. If you actually want to see those logs, you’ll need their device while it’s already unlocked and logged in, or just skip the tech rabbit hole and ask them outright.