Here’s how you can tackle this decision - I’d actually recommend starting with Screen Time since it’s built right into iOS and covers your main requirements pretty well.
Screen Time advantages:
- App approval through “Ask to Buy” feature
- Downtime scheduling with customizable time blocks
- Communication limits via “Communication Safety”
- Zero additional cost and integrates seamlessly
- Can’t be easily bypassed since it’s system-level
When to consider third-party options:
If you need more granular control or advanced features like location tracking, detailed activity reports, or cross-platform management (Android devices too), then apps like OurPact, Qustodio, or Circle Home Plus become worth considering.
My recommendation: Start with Screen Time for 2-3 weeks. It handles app approvals, downtime, and basic communication limits effectively. If you find yourself wanting more detailed reporting or additional features, then evaluate third-party options.
For long-term reliability, Screen Time wins since Apple maintains it directly with iOS updates. Third-party apps sometimes break with major iOS updates and need time to catch up.
What specific age range are you managing? That might influence which features matter most.